a girl`s letter

'Dear future husband, here is a few things you need to know if u wanna be ma one and only all ma life, take me on a date, don’t forget flowers every anniversary, u gotta know how to treat me like a lady even wen am acting crazy tell me everything is alryt, if u wanna get that special kind of treatment tell me am beautiful each and evrynyt, after evry fyt, just apologize coz you know am ryt even if I am wrong make tym for me dnt leave me lonely, buy me a ring.'

The actual words of a girl desperate or maybe not, but to have a man who treats her right, like a lady, who loves her like the angel she is. She is tired of men who behave as if they are monsters, the liars, the cheats. She has had it all, in fact she has been hurt by countless boys who call themselves men. She is reformed and despite all that has happened to her she is a repentant soul. She is waiting on God, she is waiting for the right man to pursue her. She has decided to dress appropriately, to be in places worth a lady of her stature. No more will you find her bent over and pushing hard in front of a man`s groins in club. No more will you find her staggering with a bottle in her hands. She is reformed. In fact she no longer pumps up her breasts for the perfect cleavage. And when her husband comes, she is well deserved, she is the gem he has been looking for. He will treat her right, just as she wishes.

No, this girl is noble. She has waited all her life for the knight in shining armor. She is pure, beautiful. She has her priorities right. She is hardworking. She is the woman this knight has had his mind set to find. He has searched and finally he has found her. It is therefore imperative to hold her dear. He has it natural to tell her how beautiful she is. He cannot afford to have her cry. He will do anything, anything to put a ring on her finger.

Or this girl desires all these things. She does not stop at that, she still desires the `life` so she will post a  photo every two hours on social media of her in some sort of skimpy attire, with her lips pouted. She will be seen in the news for her roundness and her beautiful eyes. And when the night comes, every man shall want to lay his hands on her. Now, what about the knight?, shall he fight for such a one? Shall he protect such a one?

I was never called to scrutinize or reply such a letter, but I will answer anyway. Do not ask, because that is unfair to your dear husband. Deserve, and if he does not act accordingly, he is guilty of more than murder. Remember you attract what you are.